Every working mum should learn how to say no

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Don't feel overwhelmed - be assertive and learn how to say no

Most people find that they can’t say no to someone asking them for something because they are so worried about upsetting them, or they lack the courage to turn down the request.

People often dislike disagreeing, or believe saying yes is easier than saying no. Others, just can’t say no.

However, there are often instances where it is best to say no to a request, so if you fit into any of the above descriptions, here is a quick lesson in the art of saying no.

Learn how to say no

Adopt simple strategies to say no, politely but firmly. You don’t need to make up stories in order to refuse – lies eventually catch up with you, and you end up wondering if the person you told it to believed you, or just feeling bad for not saying no. You don’t need to give lame excuses, either, you can say no without being dishonest.

Can I have time off work when adopting a child?

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Adopting a child afford parents the same rights as natural parents when it comes to taking time off

Simon Cowell’s former girlfriend and X-Factor confidante Sinitta announced this week that she hopes to adopt her third child in 2011.

What some people don’t realise is that no matter whether the child being adopted is a baby or school-age, parents have the right to take adoption leave from work and could also be entitled to statutory adoption pay.

In order to receive either of these rights, there are certain criteria that adoptive parents must meet and these rules will differ depending on whether the child is adopted from abroad or within the UK.

Four BlackBerry apps that will stop you procrasinating and help you become more productive

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Get smart with the way you use your phone for a better work-life balance

Us working mums are forever juggling a number of balls at any given time, so it makes sense to use whatever is available to help stay on top of our constant organising and project managing.

If you are not a smartphone user, then you really are missing out. My personal favourit smartphone is the BlackBerry – I’ve been using them for a number of years now, and it really has revolutionised the way I work.

Here are some BlackBerry apps that I use to make juggling this website, two children, a full-time job, a hjusband and other businesses that little bit easier!

gwabbit BlackBerry app
gwabbit BlackBerry app

1. gwabbit

If you run a business, ten you’ll be used to getting emails from people that you know and want to follow up at some point. But it can be a bit of a  pain having to choose between adding their email address or their phone  number, then manually adding the one left over…not to mention their  addres is you need that, too. It’s no wonder then that it’s so easy to put  it off for later if all you want to do is get on with some admin.

What makes a good home-based business model?

Start a home-based business the right way andreap the rewards later
Start a home-based business the right way and reap the rewards later

So, you’ve finally found a home-based business idea that you would like to put into action. Fantastic –  but with that excitement and energy, would it be wise to just take the plunge and start the business ad take everything as it comes? Well yes, and no…

When starting a new, home-based business you need to plan ahead. Yes, spontaneity is good, but you need to have a plan of action in terms of how you’ll run the business, how you will market your business, how you will pay the bills – your running costs and how you will pay your bills.

Planning for your home-based business is important because it helps you reach a goal for the future, it also helps if you are trying to get financing for your home-based business.

Thinking about making a career change? Do you know what’s important to you in a job?

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Changing careers of jobs should be done with planning

When thinking about a career change, or changing jobs, there are a few things that you need to think about before you start making job applications.

As well as practical things like location, salary and the job market, when considering a career change, don’t forget to look into updating your skills and experience – especially if you are returning to work after taking a break.

Thinking of returning to work? Top job hunting tips

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Let your CV and job applications do the convincing for you

If you listen to what’s in the media these days, you’ll no doubt feel that the job market is very competitive and you may even have convinced yourself that there are no jobs out there at all. But this is far from the case – you only need to look in the recruitment sections of newspapers and look online to see that there are jobs to be had!

Yes – it is true that there is now a lot of competition to get a job, but it is not impossible. What you need to do is make sure that your application stands out from the crowd.

Here are a few tips to help you get the edge in searching for a job and landing the job of your dreams.